I am being "repotted"

** I am not moving, I am being REPOTTED! **

Saturday the women gathered for ceremony at Hope Peace Ceremonies. Young Warrior Women, Elders, and Crones, we prayed together opening our Womb Medicine within the womb of the mother.

Fifteen years I have been keeper of a sweat lodge on the land in Hope. Sacred calling, sacred duty, sacred blessing!

Women's Lodge June 17 fire

Lodges, dances, vision quests. I have quested and danced here for my own healing. I have held space and facilitated for others, including beloved clients in their initiation.

My life has changed on this land. I have discovered and grown into my healing mission on this land, and in ceremony. This land held me through 12 years of Orgasmic Alchemy initiation as I learned the Womb Medicine and sexual healing I teach you.

It is on this land, and often in my lover's arms, that I received the inspiration and began channeling the work I teach now: Womb Magic, Womb Wisdom, and the Cosmic Womb Initiations.

One of the gifts I received within the lodge yesterday is that I am releasing this land to new custodians so that I can grow into the NEXT PART OF MY MISSION!

What looks like uncertainty on the outside, it truly is a fertile open space to grow my roots, leaves, flowers and fruits. Yes, I am being transplanted from the root bound pot of my old home, old life, and way of serving others -- and the Divine Feminine.

I am not merely selling my house and moving, I am being repotted by the Goddess! (OMG, SHE's cracking me up!)


The first flower of my expanding mission, Awakening Womb Magic, is the front porch of the Temple. Private clients are already seeing deep healing unfold and new expansion in their vision and mission and ability to receive money, love, and inspiration in greater measure than before.

It is time for you to clear the obstacles to your wealth, love, sex, and mission.

This month, I open the doors to Awakening Womb Magic's first group program.

We start August 1.

Email desire [at] orgasmicalchemy [dot]com to get the info.

Erotic Energy is Your Inner Fire

Part 2/7 Sex – Your Inner Power Source

All my teaching, writing, and work with clients is about illuminating *this* truth in a woman's life:

Your inner power source is your sexual erotic energy.

Inner fire graph
How much power you have access to, and how much you can impact the world, is directly related to how much sexual erotic energy you can build and access.

In Part 1, Sex is Your Inner Power Source, we established that sex as a power source is wired into our human energy system in the second chakra. We defined some terms I use often – womb and yoni, the sacred space of a woman's body. I refer to them also as your “temple.” 

In Part 2, we are going to define two more terms.

1. Sex. Yes we need to know what we mean by that word.

When I talk about sex, sometimes I am talking about the physical act of lovemaking, either solo, or with a partner -- and I am *always* including the inner truth of sex, and that is that sex is your sexual erotic energy.

So let's define erotic energy ~

2. Erotic energy is your creative life force.

So what does that mean in real life?

{{ Now is a good time to pause for a breath – really, I want to you pause and let a slow deep breath fill your belly, and exhale.
Now repeat that slow deep life-giving breath. }}

This is how you know about *erotic energy* – your creative life force.

YOU FEEL IT. It is a delicious blend of emotional and physical feeling.

You feel this energy when you are “turned on!”
One of the easiest ways to feel this energy is through sex!

** the fire of desire,
** the heat of pleasure, and
** the rush of orgasm...

You use erotic energy to have sex, and yes, erotic energy is how babies are born!


Erotic energy is how you create ANYTHING.

Whether you are creating a baby, an orgasm, soup, a cake, art, healing, a business, money, ideas, wisdom, systems, or structures, you are accessing this sexual erotic energy.

You are born with this sexual erotic energy. It is always there inside of you. Like a fire, sometimes the flames are high and it burns hot and sometimes it cools down to embers. But it is YOUR energy and it is *always* present.

Sexual erotic energy IS a creative life force. It IS your inner fire.


And your inner fire IS what gives you POWER.
Are you with me so far?

Sex is Your Inner Power Source!

Sex is your inner power source. This is fundamental wisdom for empowered women.

But what does it mean?


In a series of posts, I'll break down the ingredients of sex, sexual energy, and personal *feminine* power to establish a common foundation for people new to this concept. It will be a Masterclass on Sexuality as Your Inner Power. 

Sex inner power graphic

Morning meditation led me to this teaching from Caroline Myss:

"The second chakra is your center of personal power, creativity, sexuality, and finances."

There it is, wired into our energy system!

Chakras are energy centers in the body. Chakra is the Sanskrit word meaning "wheel of light." Much of what we know about chakras comes from Indian systems of thought, though understanding the body as having energy centers governing health, function, and higher vibrations is almost universal among the world's peoples.

Caroline Myss refers to chakras as "energy anatomy". There are seven chakras in the physical body, and each one associates with a organ system, an energetic quality, and can manifest particular physical issue if there is something off in the chakra energy.

Each chakra is a resource for power, and all the chakras work together.

The second chakra is in the belly between navel and pubic bone. Its organs are the uterus and ovaries, bladder, pelvis, hip, and large intestine.

I refer to this space as WOMB. Womb is more than the uterus -- it includes every organ of reproduction and pleasure. There is a Sankrit word you will hear me use often: YONI. It also refers to all female organs of reproduction and pleasure. Yoni means "Sacred Space." That is why I like to say it!

That is how I invite you to think of your body, your womb, yoni, and genitals -- Your Sacred Space.

We have established some terminology that we can use to share information and talk about experiences:
chakra, womb, yoni. We will gather more words as we go along.

For now, I invite you to ponder the space in your belly and pelvis, and imagine how it may be affecting your sexuality, finances, and power.

(Part 1 of a 7 part masterclass in Sex - Your Inner Power delivered in my Facebook group Sexy Wealthy Divas. Request to be added!)


Vision is the First Step to Activism

Last November a lot of people on both sides voted for change. A lot of people didn't vote, and by their non-vote they were also voting for change.

The results of the election are a catalyst for change. If we are to have change that we can live with and thrive with, we must hold a vision together.


It is an absolute requirement that we create a clear vision of the world we desire, and only take actions that create that world.

The current political situation we are in now in the United States is compelling and dire. I recognize that the regime in power is calling the shots, our shots. When we respond, react, and resist, they set our agenda for us.

We don't mean for it to happen. I know most people in the resistance are fighting for what they believe and desire a just and caring society for all people.

But all the attention is focused on the seats of power, mostly in Washington, and the latest outrageous move of the current regime.

We cannot win that game because it is their game. It's a nasty game with no rules. It will destroy us.

What I recommend is necessary and harder, and ultimately more rewarding and successful.

Come together to declare and illuminate the vision of the world we want to live in.

Last night I attended the screening of Jim Merkel's documentary in progress, Saving Walden's World. This is Jim's declaration of his vision for a world that is possible.

The foundation of his vision is the rights and empowerment of women, reducing the collective carbon footprint, and turning over 50% of the planet to wilderness.

This vision is congruent with my own vision of the world I want to live in and leave intact for my grandchildren – A world in which human beings live in an intimate relationship with nature – a relationship built on “grateful reciprocity”, the theme of Robin Wall Kimmerer's book Braiding Sweetgrass.

It is challenging work to get together and create a consensus for a vision of the world we desire. It's even harder to decide on the actions that will assure this world's creation. Hardest of all is to find shared values and common ground with people we don't see eye to eye with politically or otherwise.

Fortunately, there is room for diversity of beliefs, skills, and actions in this big vision of the world –


Womb Circle Cone of Power

In 2015, I had a vision of Circles of Women doing magik and healing work together. The men surrounded them with protection and honor. The Feminine takes a leadership role in this new Vision. Men stand with the Women, as they heal their own wounds that the patriarchy inflicted.

My own contribution to the Vision is healing individual and collective sexual wounds as a the first step to creating healthy relationship with self, other people, and nature.

What is your gift and contribution to the Vision?

Some of the work we do together will include political action, acts of resistance, and defense of water, air, land, plants, and animals. We will have to defend our rights to grow food, save seed, love whom we wish, live where we like, and govern ourselves by vote and representation. We defend these rights for all people of this land, this Earth, together.

Before the action comes the vision of the world we are creating comes first.

The Vision will guide our actions.

Here is the tricky part:

Once we have the clear vision and a sense of what it takes to bring it into being, then comes the biggest challenge:

The willingness to change ourselves as that blessed vision of our world requires us to change.

As much as I believe in my mission of intimate relationship with Nature, there is a stubborn part of me that wishes I did not have to change my patterns of consumption of Earth's resources. I understand why so many voted a certain way because they wanted their old life, the former American dream, back again.

That dream is over. It has become a nightmare.

While the period of change may feel like “sacrifice” for a time, it is the spiritual meaning of sacrifice:

Letting go of something of a lower nature so you can receive something of higher nature.

The New Vision of the World that is founded on “grateful reciprocity” with life is an abundant vision. It is a higher vibration.

We have teachers to help us. Our teachers in how to change to greet this New Vision are the Indigenous, the refugee, the people of color who have already sacrificed to the ravages of the old, dead vision. There are among us masters and journeymen of farming, reclaiming, re-skilling, and re-wilding. There are people who have been working towards a vision of a thriving, sustainable world for years.

Their time has come.

Gather with your neighbors from all walks in real life, and yes, virtually as well. Create a vision together of the World you want, globally and locally. Start making decisions and taking action for change.

Incremental change is easier that drastic change, but we may not have a choice by now.

We do have the choice to envision the change we want, takes steps now, and meet change with enthusiasm.

Some of it will be a fight, some of it will be pleasure, some of it will be beautiful.

Change is coming, whether or not you are ready for it, you voted for it, or you have a say in what it looks like.

Don't let that happen.

Reclaim your power.


Do You Need a Melting Hug Too?

I need a hug.

Not a butt in the air, no touching below the waste hug.

Not a one armed we-used-to-be-lovers-but-I'm-dating-someone-else-now hug.

Not a quickie hug.

Not a bear hug.

Not even a heart-to-heart hug.

And I am going out to find one today.

Which means I have to dare to give somebody a melting hug today.
Giving a melting hug means I dare to be uncomfortable until I melt.
More, it means I dare to be with the other person's discomfort till he or she melts.

We're uncomfortable melting into another person's body and presence.

Not even with our lovers -- 
and certainly not with other people, definitely not in public places.

People, our comfort zone is killing us!

I am getting out of my comfort zone today.

Dare to be uncomfortable for a few seconds.
Give and receive a melting hug.

One body porcelain

Not sure how to do a melting hug?

A melting hug is embracing belly to belly, heart to heart, and breathing with it until you feel yourself relax and yield to the presence of the other person and YOURSELF.

Here's how to begin.

-- Start with the ask. Ask someone if they will share a melting hug with you

Those words are important: SHARE a melting hug. You are not giving a hug or taking a hug.

-- Explain that you will hold each other in a belly to belly hug until you feel like you have melted into one other.

When/if they agree -- consent is necessary --  

-- Stand up and find a physically and mutually comfortable embrace. This may take some adjusting, and you'll feel it when you get it.

-- You hold the embrace, relaxing into it, adjusting your body as needed, and breathing, until you pass through the awkward uncomfortable phase, and feel the love well up in you. 

It not romantic or sexual. It is a HUMAN HUG.

It melts away sadness, anxiety, and separation. 

It lasts until you both feel complete, having moved through awkwardness and unease to ease, comfort, pleasure and connection.

A melting hug generates an unfamiliar sense of I am present. I am worthy. I am OK. 

In a melting hug, each person is self-responsible, and the hug gives them a physical, sensate, and visceral experience of that. 

If a trigger happens, and a person is unable to complete the melting hug experience, let them back away, generously holding their gaze, and thank them for the hug. Don't worry about triggers.

A good way to complete any melting hug is to slowly release and separate, still touching hands or arms, and gazing into one another's eyes.

Say THANK YOU, and complete. 

This is free and simple and easy. A pure gift. The fewer words the better. 

Will you dare to share a melting hug today?

Let me know how it goes.

Find the Jewel in Shame


A month ago on the longest night of the year, I took a walk as dusk began to enfold the woods. The message came:



I know you don't want to read about shame. I am commanded to write it, by the Goddess who adores you and calls you to her!

Shame doesn't want me to write this article, which I started a month ago!

This will be worth it so stay with me.

I've done some radical shame healing on my diva path. I still work with it deliberately, consciously, because one thing I've learned:

If there is something I am NOT MANIFESTING, I have SHAME hooked into it.

Shame is at the root of your wounds, and your disempowering beliefs and behaviors.



It lies to you. It is a master of disguise, camouflage, and shape-shifting. It pulls things into the shadows. It sneaks around wearing an invisibility cloak.

It has tentacles, hooks, and many heads like a hydra.

Shame does NOT want you to SEE it! And it will go to extremes to stop you from being SEEN. It will keep you from showing up, shining your light, being visible and powerful!

If you go after the source of shame it will redirect you to work on a different issue, while it morphs into something unfamiliar and hides under a rock.

How do you go about healing shame when it is so slippery?

How do you find the Jewel in shame?

You make friends with it.
You shine a light on it.
You get naked with it.

Feed yourself MASSIVE DOSES OF COMPASSION in the places where you trigger shame.

Comes the day you reach your hand through that shadowy veil, you reach right through the shame and grab the jewel and the power on the other side.

You neutralize shame with your STRENGTH.

You make your SHAME SMALL AND YOURSELF BIG. This takes away its power.

This is rarely done in an instant, though it may feel like that. Sometimes shame hides and hides and you don't know what is wrong and why nothing works. Then one day, you see that slippery shadow slide under a rock and you say GOTCHA! And you walk right through like a miracle.

Sometimes you throw yourself against the problem till you are bruised and bleeding, and you keep chasing the shame, and trying to fix it, and one day, shame wears itself out. It steps aside and lets you pass into your power and glory.


Jewel in shame herk1


It is time to deal with the shame that keeps YOU, your desires, and your gifts in the shadows.

Why does this matter so much?

It matters because Shame keeps a fundamental, powerful, expressive part of YOU in hiding.

If you are hiding you are not available for intimacy. Into-me-see. You cannot let yourself be SEEN.

Sex requires intimacy with your beloved. Wealth requires intimacy with the world at large. Voice is Visibility. All these layers of intimacy have an external and internal component.

Shame kills intimacy. It AVOIDS intimacy.

Its function is to hide things you are terrified others will find out about you. It is often behind the unconscious triggers that get flipped on when you try to achieve higher, or grow in a new direction, or interact with people in a new way.

Shame can strike anywhere. Its favorite playgrounds are sex, food, and money.

You know those BLOCKS people always talk about? When you feel blocked, look for SECRET SHAME.

Entrepreneurs come up against secret shame in business when it is time to be visible, make sales, declare your value, make a stand, take a risk, or make an investment.

If you are resisting, feeling stuck, avoiding something, or in denial, look for shame.

It will stop your manifesting in its tracks, no matter what tools and magick you have.

You have to reach into the Shame to grasp the Jewel in order for your magick to work.

How do you find the jewel in Shame?

Shame doesn't ever want to be OUTED. You don't challenge it to a duel, or demand it come out with its hands up! You don't shine a bright light on it. You can't shame SHAME.

You have to become stronger and bigger than your shame. The only way to do that is through Love and Compassion.

You Love shame into the Light, gently, compassionately, relentlessly.

Jewel in shame

The day I started to write about Shame, it seemed like everybody on Facebook was writing about Shame too. My astrologer started talking about it, and mentioned Mars conjunct Nessus. It made sense that in the time between Winter Solstice and New Years, shame was front and center in everyone's mind.

In some Facebook groups people were encouraged to “show courage and declare their shame,” to bring it into the light.

I do not advocate that approach.

There may come a time when that is exactly what you have to do, but it happens after you've grasped the Jewel, not before. You need to feel safe and strong and accepted – no matter what – to name your shame.

If you try to out your shame without doing the necessary work to befriend it first, it will slip and slide and grow tentacles and hooks and dig in deeper somewhere else.

So I won't ask you to do that.

I do invite you to begin to notice shame in the privacy of your own thoughts and journal.

-- Start ferreting out shame.
-- Look at where you are hurting and poke around.
-- Catch its slippery shadow out of the corner of your eye.
-- See what rock it crawls under.

Become aware of what makes you stop, and dare yourself to see the shame behind it.

Remember that Shame is a LIE, and it is an ILLUSION. You may have built your identity around the LIES of shame.

It matters that you approach healing shame with utmost respect, compassion, and support.

This process may not be easy or quick. There may be a lot of detective work to do. You may have to heal your way to the feeling of strength that will let you face your shame triumphantly.

If your experience is anything like mine has been, this might hurt a lot. I promise you it is worth it.

It is not something you do alone. I didn't do my shame work alone. Over the years I had a priestess, a circle, coaches, therapists, Tarot experts, medicine sisters, ceremony, Spirit Guides, and the Earth Herself to help me. I needed them all.

Depending on where you are in your journey, you may need a lot of support. Or you may simply need to make a decision and take that ONE defining step toward the truth inside you.

In the end, you stand tall and strong, reach your hand into the shadow, and grasp the Jewel. The Jewel is your gift, your mightiness, your invincibility.

It is the magickal tool that will bring you that which you desire, and empower to give back to life that which you came to be.

Your Jewel gives you the courage and the energy to declare your dream and do the work your dream requires.

Your Jewel is uniquely YOURS. 

Do you want support to release the hold Shame has on you? Do you want someone who has your back as you GROW YOURSELF bigger than these old wounds that run your life? Do you want to learn how to grasp your Jewel and bring it into the light?

Book a complimentary 30 minute private consultation to discuss how you can take steps to break the bonds of shame and find your own Jewel.

Select a time in my online calendar here: http://divacarla.youcanbook.me.

I desire your freedom from shame! Do you?




I was surprised to see the words I AM RICH AND FAMOUS appear in my journal this week. It triggered me, especially since I am working to live in partnership with nature more effectively. I felt the conflict.

I was raised to be humble and modest. That translates as poor and invisible! It was the deal I made with my ancestors as a child, and has been one of the prime movers of my life's healing Journey.

As a child I was shy, smart, bookish, solitary, aloof. Yet I envied the “stars” in my class! The dancers, guitar players, and performers!

I wanted to be on stage too – admired, desired, and applauded for my talent. My forays into the limelight freaked me out so that I withdrew even deeper into books and nature. My gifts seem to breed solitude: art, writing, and spiritual passion!

When I AM RICH AND FAMOUS shows up as a desire in my cronehood, I embrace it with curiosity. What is this message? Why?

Rich and famous


I believe we get to define our terms. I get to choose what rich and famous means to me

FAMOUS means well known and respected by my peers and colleagues for the wisdom, healing, and creative energy I express. It means being sought by people who would learn from me, who are healers, creators, and wisdom teachers themselves.

FAMOUS means having an impact to change lives for the better, to inspire other's greatness. This is a gift I have had all my life; it is why I came to Earth. (I think I am OK with letting my students be the FAMOUS ones!)

FAMOUS mean being RADIANTLY VISIBLE with my message and in service! To fail to do so would be an insult to Spirit and an abuse of the gifts I've been given to share.

Will I ever be a household name, have my privacy threatened? Go viral on Facebook or Twitter?

Will I be world-FAMOUS? Do I even WANT that?

(Here's a story: I live in a coastal community in Maine. I used to sell advertising for the local newspaper and one of my clients was the art supply store. Gino the manager made me a name tag – The World-famous Carla Sanders. He would see me in town and shout across the street Hello! it's the world-famous Carla Sanders! I loved it! )


Wealth has many currencies. We are all wealthy when we live in grateful reciprocity with nature.

RICH means money. It is often associated with luxurious and excessive consumption. This is appalling to me, and yet, I live richly by most standards. My footprint on the Earth is bigger than I want it to be. I don't know which of my luxuries I would part with. A car, a refrigerator full of food, running water, internet?
(Yep, most of what we think are necessities are luxuries.)

RICH mean to me that I am a vortex of money energy that flows and makes things happen. In addition to being wealthy in all the things that make life worth living, RICH means being able to generate sufficent amouts of money for my desires and intentions.

I am meant to be a PHILANTHROPIST as a way of fulfilling my purpose. My purpose is to remind people of their sacred relationship with nature. There are many people already doing well the work that I believe in. I would help them expand their reach and effectiveness with financial support.

What is more, the direct work I do as a wisdom teacher is much more effective if I am financially free and my financial house is in order.

Many teachers I follow make this stand: “It is time for spiritual people to be rich!” – especially women. I stand with them.

To spiritual people who believe money is tainted by a corrupt economic system, I say: Let the money flow through you and be purified! Free yourself from debilitating, mission-killing struggle by being a channel for money. You have the privilege and responsibility to direct all your energy, including money, in accordance with your values and the highest good for all life!

That's what I mean by RICH. Stop hating money, and start liking it. Let it flow to and through you.

My idea of RICH AND FAMOUS may be very different from the Rich and Famous seen in the tabloids and TV. Yet my unconscious objections to those ideas have the power to undermine my values of freedom, service, abundance and expression for myself and all people.

Do my words serve anyone hidden on a blog no one reads, or a journal moldering on the shelf? What is the impact of my art when it gathers dust in the silent studio?

Is this modesty or blaspheny?

Best to get all that out in the open!

I AM RICH AND FAMOUS. These words and image become a sigil -- a way of communicating with my unconscious mind to reveal its secrets. I can play with the dynamic tension between the authentic desire and the shadow beliefs that pinch off the desire. I am free to make powerful choices to live my purpose – reminding people of their intimate relationship with self, one another, and the earth.

This is my growth process. I am gratified if it also illuminates yours.

#richandfamous #radiantly visible


The Sacred Womb Gives Birth to Christ Consciousness

Black madonna pregant

Blessings and joy in this sacred time of year!

In the Northern Hemisphere, we have just celebrated the Winter Solstice, honoring the darkness of the longest night, and celebrating the return of the Light. Now we are celebrating Christmas.

The Christmas season commemorates the birth of a Child, and the Child is the center of ritual.

But the Story of Christmas is really a story of the Womb of the Divine Feminine. The Sacred Womb that gives birth to a Holy Child is a story older than Christianity. Mother Mary and her son Jesus belong to a long history of Goddesses who give miraculous birth to a Son who will change the world.

Christianity chose to negate the sexual power of the Feminine by making its Holy Mother a Virgin, who "had no sin". 

We know the truth: The Sacred Birth is the culmination of the Sacred Sexual Power of the Goddess and the God in Holy Union.

The truth is embedded in Nature and our own bodies. It is time to remember.

The Dark Night of the Winter Solstice is pregnant with the Light of the returning Sun.

The Full Moon gives birth to the manifest intentions we planted at the New Moon.

All mothers give birth to holy children with the power to change the world!

Galaxy Birth by Carla Sanders

Whatever spiritual traditions and symbols you cherish, when you hear songs of the Holy Infant, remember the Womb that carried the baby, and served as portal between the worlds for the Child to come to this time and space.

We all came here through a holy womb.


~ this Sacred Womb that is always carrying us, always birthing us, and through which we give birth to all that we make ~ Children, Art, Healing, Food, Peace.

As you enjoy the lights this holiday season, remember where you come from and honor her Darkness and Her Light: the Womb of the Divine Feminine.

I wish you a joyful day of celebration and connection to the eternal power of LOVE!

Ice drop plain

May the Light be with YOU!





The Part of You that Hurts the Most ...


Carla is 7The part of you that hurts the most is the strongest part.

I am talking about your inner child who throws tantrums when you try to heal your wounds and change your life.


This is what some spiritual teachers recommend. I tried that and my inner five year old raged that I would dismiss her and patronize her that way!

It is a waste of her power -- and she will fight you!


Get to know this young diva very well. Understand what she wants for herself (YOU).

Recognize how powerful she is in doing whatever she must to get her (your) needs met.

Enlist her STRENGTH in your healing.

Consult her as you grow. Keep her informed about what you are doing and why you want to do it.

YOUR JOURNAL is your tool for communicating with her. She will respond. Let this dialogue unfold over time.

Honor and respect her POWER. Express GRATITUDE for all the ways she has taken care of you with her childlike understanding of the facts.

As you ready yourself to LEAP FORWARD, cradle your inner child in your arms. Let her feel how you are both held together in the arms of the Divine Universe!

Tell her stories of how wonderful it is where you are going together. Explain your desires in terms she can understand at her age. (This is probably the age you were when she made her decision to protect you at all costs.)


This is work I can help you do.

Let's have a conversation about how you want to reclaim your Divine Feminine Power, and how to get your INNER FIVE YEAR OLD on your side so you can BE, DO, AND HAVE WHAT YOU DESIRE. 


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Surprise Reason Women Need Sexual Healing

Rose PlatterTonight I was washing the china I'll use on my Thanksgiving table, (see photo below) and the Goddess starts talking up a storm. 

I shared her message in my Facebook group Sexy Wealthy Divas, and the conversation is rich. 
Some women are not that interested in sex. They are not looking for a better sex life or a partner, or self-pleasure. They are fine with having low libido, low interest, or low passion in their physical sex life. 

It has always bothered me a little that my message might be shaming to women who have less interest, or are completely happy channeling their sexual energy into other forms. 

Women who feel that way are fine, not broken, and may not be in my tribe. They don't want sexual healing and don't feel a need for it.

This evening while giving my bone china a bubble bath, I heard the Goddess whisper in my ear.

"Women don't need sexual healing to improve their sex life. They need it to clear and liberate their energy!"

Duh. I knew that!

It is the unhappy fact that human beings - female, male, and anywhere on the spectrum -- who are born and raised in this Puritan, patriarchal culture have sexual healing to do. 

If a person is content and happy with their current sex life, even if it is celibacy, they may not find themselves on my list or in my world. 

But I got a nudge from the Goddess this evening that more of them are coming.

Sexual healing will reveal to them their Soul's purpose, and free them from secret pain and shame they've been carrying. 

People with wombs will want to access their womb oracle. 

People with histories of repression or abuse want to forgive, release, and reclaim. 

These beautiful people may learn the joys of "orgasmic celibacy". They may decide to become more actively physically sexual. They may come out as "ecosexual."

Sexual energy is your life force that is the Divine channel running through you. It is your access to deep Self, and your open circuit to Divine. It is the communication channel of your Soul. 

And it makes being in a human body really fun!

For more teachings on sexual energy, wealth, and the manifesting power of your voice -- the three Sacred Feminine Powers, join Sexy Wealthy Divas on Facebook! You will be welcome in our community. 


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