Sex does not=relationship - A Man's Advice to Women

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Sex does not=relationship - A Man's Advice to Women

Last week I came across this blog post and I wonder how it lands on you. I don't know the author's name (fill me in if you do). I read it as a lively, vehement reminder that women and men must be awake, self-responsible, and not living in fantasy-land when it comes to relationships and sex. Some of my favorites:

"Listen to what he says, NOT what you want to hear. Stop INTERPRETING the meaning of what he says to fit your purposes. If he says, "I'm not lookin' for nothing right now" --DON'T tell yourself, "Aw, he just scared of getting hurt. I can change his mind.." NO YOU CAN'T. He said exactly what the hell he meant. Men don't have to lie when so many women are already DEAF."

AND

"Show our ASS to the door if we pressure you for sex too soon."

What do you think? Do women bear some responsibility for men's bad behavior? And does it work opposite? Does that question also work if the genders are reversed?

I haven't had my coffee yet! I'll be back after a visit with my grinder and Aeropress.